Secret of Good relationship

The secret means we are creator of our Universe, and that every wish that we want to create will manifest in our lives. Therefore, our wishes, thoughts and feelings are very important because they will manifest. One day I went into home of an art director, a very famous film producer. In every corner he had this beautiful image of a naked woman draped with a fabric, kind of turning away as if she were saying, “I don’t see you.” “I said to him, “I think you might have trouble in your romance.” And he said “Are you clairvoyant?” “No but look. In seven places, you have exactly that same woman.” He said “But I love that kind of painting. I painted it myself.” I said, “That’s even worse because you put all your creation and creativity in it.”He’s a gorgeous-looking man with all these actresses around him because that’s the work he does, and he does not have any romance. I asked him,”What do you want?” “I want to date three women a week.” I said, ”Ok, paint it. Paint yourself with three women, and hang it in every corner of your living space.”Six months later I saw him and asked,”How is your love life?” ”Great! Women call me, they want to date me.” “Because that’s your wish,” I said. He said “I feel great. I mean for years I did not have a date and now I have three dates a week. They’re fighting over me.” “Good for you,” I said. Then he told me, ”I really want to stabilize. I want marriage now, I want romance.” I said, “Well, then paint it.” He painted a beautiful romantic relationship, and a year later he got married, and he’s very happy.This is because he put another wish out. He wished it in himself for years without it happening because his wish could not manifest. The outer level of himself – his house – was contradicting his wish all the time. So if you understand the knowledge, you first start playing with it.Marie Diamond’s story of her client is a perfect demonstration of Feng Shui reflects the teachings of the Secret. It illustrates how our thoughts create powerfully when we put them into action. Actions are particularly powerful, because they are thoughts that have caused us to act.We may not even realize what our innermost thought are, but we can see what we have been thinking by looking at the actions we have taken. In the story of the film producer, his innermost thoughts we reflected in his actions and surroundings. He had painted many women, all turning away from him. Can you see what is innermost thoughts were? Even though his words were saying he wanted to date more women, his innermost thoughts did not reflect that in his paintings. By deliberately choosing to change his actions, it caused him to focus his entire thought on what he wanted. With such a simple shift, he was able to paint his life and call it into existence through the law of attraction.When you want to attract something into your life, make sure your actions don’t contradict your desires. One pf the most wonderful examples of this is given by Mike Dooley, one of the teachers featured in The Secret, in his audio course, leveraging the Universe and Engaging the Magic. It is the story of a woman who wanted to attract her perfect partner in her life. She had done all the right things, there were no sign of him.Then one day as she arrived home and was parking her car in the middle of her garage, she gasped as she realized that her actions were contradicting what she wanted. If her car was in the middle of the garage, there was no room for her perfect partner’s car! Her actions powerfully saying to the Universe that she did not believe she was going to receive what she had asked for. So she immediately cleaned up her garage and parked her car to one side, leaving a space for her perfect partner’s car on the other side. She then went into her bedroom and opened her wardrobe, which was jammed full of clothes. There was no room for her perfect partner’s clothes. So she moved some of her clothes to make space. She had also been sleeping in the middle of her bed, and so she began sleeping on “her” side, leaving space for her partner.This woman related her story to Mike Dooley over a dinner, and sitting next to her at the table was her perfect partner. After taking all these powerful actions and acting as if she had already received her perfect partner, he arrived in her life and they are happily married.Another example of “acting as if” is a story of my sister Glenda, who is the production manager of the film The Secret. She was living and working in Australia, and she wanted to move to the United States and work with me in our U.S. office. Glenda knew The Secret very well, and so she was doing all the right things to bring forth what she wanted, but months were passing by and she was still in Australia.Glenda loked at her actions and realized she was not “acting as if” she was receiving what she had asked for. So she began to take powerful actions. She organized everything in her life for her departure. She canceled memberships, gave away thing she would not need, and she got her suitcases out and packed them. Within four weeks, Glenda was in the United States working out of our U.S. office.Think about what you have asked for, and make sure that your actions are mirroring what you expect to receive, and that they’re not contradicting what you’ve asked for. Act as if you are receiving it. Do exactly what you would do if you were receiving it today, and take action in our life to reflect powerful expectation. Make room to receive your desires, and as you do, you are sending out that powerful signal of expectation.
(taken from the book The Secret - Rhonda Byrne)